We gotta be together

[CutLifeAOpenSource]

[Mister Obvious]

Define "together" and explain how it differs from "together but taking a break"...

[Mister Obvious]

Cuz to me there's no difference.

[Mister Obvious]

I'ma just be real.

[Mister Obvious]

My ideal situation is seeing each other once maybe like every 6 months, and making some type of verbal contact once weekly or bi-weekly just depending on whether or not it feels like enough time has passed.

[Mister Obvious]

Verbal contact = email, text, almost never voice.

Listen, it's good to know you're out there.

Take care, eat well, get that fiber but...

TBH, I am good.

[Mister Obvious]

As long as I know you're healthy and you haven't gone gay-4-pay, I see no reason to be all up in each other's bizniz.

Ya feel me?

[Mister Obvious]

I don't really want you going gay for free either, but I feel like taking pay for it is just next level inexcusable.

[Mister Obvious]

[mrnotfungus]

Since I stopped drinking, you remind me of, well, me.
Strange ones is us. We need to have the fun back no more stiff upper lip shit.

[ImNotBobMarli]

Define "together" and explain how it differs from "together but taking a break"...

Together then apart.
Lets get together and feel alright.
Then fuck off do our own thing.
Then lets get together and feel alright.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qJMqdTr7IQM

[fungalunga]

I don't really want you going gay for free either, but I feel like taking pay for it is just next level inexcusable.

I can't be gay, ive actually tried to look at it from the outside in, the forest for the trees.
Looked at guys bums looked at girls bums.
Guys bums just don't do it for me.
So I guess you must be born that way.
The smell of a female vs male, I notice it its pheromones.
I bet you have a nice smelling sweat but I will never know.

[Mister Obvious]

I was just thinking about the importance of pheromone compatibility a few minutes ago.

It's so true man...

On a pheromone level?

Some people are neutral, some people are attractive, and some people are off-putting.

I think this is one of the most important things to judge people by.

If you get close to somebody and you don't like the smell, I don't see any reason to ever deal with them again.

And this isn't just in the realm of romantic stuff either, I think it's a good rule for life in general.

[user328]

I don't understand the OP's screen name.

[fungisnotherenow]

I think we had this discussion long ago dear.
You be you I be me. We come together have joy then do our own thing.
My friend is with a girl 8 years, he Pisces not aries cusp she scorpio.
Its a co dependent thing she manipulates him which is sad cos he is a nice guy ive known him since I was 20.
Its almost like he needs to get permission to call me on the phone, it is strange.
No one needs this shit in reality I know a couple 2 cops married 30 years, they work different police areas.
They both have their own entirely different hobbies and interests. They come together love one another then do life.
That is a healthy relationship built on trust.

[Mister Obvious]

I don't understand the OP's screen name.

Same.

[ewwyuckcleanit]

I don't understand the OP's screen name.

It says, SIT ON MY FACE!

[Mister Obvious]

Its almost like he needs to get permission to call me on the phone, it is strange.

If you were a chick, maybe it'd make sense, otherwise it's a huge red flag.

People end up in these situations cuz they're afraid to be alone.

[Mister Obvious]

It says, SIT ON MY FACE!

Fungi is trying to say that he wants to fuck you, Dev.

[user328]

They all do. They want to fuck you too, MO. That's the reason they're here.