11-12-2019, 04:55 PM
If Katie has a dude on the line, why THE HELL is she making a video like this??
She always does this and scares the shit out of whatever dude she's dating...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tcqhHsGpQd8
You fricken CANNOT do this...
It's not about "stigmatizing mental illness" either...
It's about not SCARING PEOPLE AWAY.
A manipulative person should UNDERSTAND this principle.
They should understand the idea that PSYCHOLOGICALLY people don't want to hear this kinda stuff, especially if it's directed at them/their situation WITH YOU.
Like the Brett guy...
If he sees this, he'll interpret that she's talking about not feeling worthy to be with him...
Which, LMFAOOO... she's TOTALLY worthy of being with him. He's... just some guy.
But he's going to think this is about him and he's going to feel backed into a corner like he needs to say something or do something to "prove" himself to her, and that's wrong.
You can't put people on the spot like that (at least not more than a couple times, total) and expect them to just stick with you.
WELCOME TO LIFE.
Everyone has FUCKING NEGATIVE THOUGHTS.
I don't even know how people FUNCTION AND GET THROUGH LIFE.
EVERYONNNNEEEEEEEEE feels this way...
They hide it, they go through life, and they make it anyways.
They get husbands/wives, they have families, they do the career thing...
EVERYONE feels this way.
Maybe a few super happy people out there are just like... abnormally positive, LMAO.
But otherwise? Everyone struggles.
If you start getting into something good, you have to stuff the thoughts and proceed into that situation AS IF NOTHING IS WRONG.
Because in REALITY, and from other peoples' perception (of you and their situation with you) there IS NOTHING WRONG.
So it makes you look like a fricken psycho when you behave and talk like there's something wrong.
People are RIGHT to run from that... you can't have a healthy life (with healthy relationships) if you don't see reality for WHAT IT IS, and that includes taking in other peoples' perspectives of reality...
You HAVE TO DO THAT if you're in a relationship with someone, that's PART OF IT.
