04-14-2020, 05:15 PM
(04-14-2020, 04:10 PM)somethingelseishere Wrote: . . .
How many "normal" people in "normal" relationships do just that, everyday, to one extent
or another? In happens in marriages, sometimes it's the wife - sometimes, the husband.
. . .
For whatever reason, to whatever degree, erasing themselves in order to serve another.
. . .
Not making any judgments here, just wondering where it all roots from. Some deeply felt
inadequacy? And this isn't to slam the BDSM types, it's more in line of a case study in general
human behavior.
. . .
I truly believe that couples who indulge in a bit of controlled pain and suffering probably enjoy a more healthy relationship overall. I'd be willing to test out the theory with the right fella.