12-09-2020, 01:18 PM
I've never been a Madonna fan perse...
She had some good songs, there were a few.
I'll probably post them on this thread.
The official video for "Into The Groove" appears to be a promotional video for the 1985 movie "Desperately Seeking Susan" which Madonna also starred in. I actually saw it once a long time ago, it was a fairly enjoyable little movie, I recall. I don't actually remember anything about the plot though.
Correct me if I'm totally wrong, those old enough to remember, but...
I don't think Madonna was ever even considered all that hot or desirable by men in general during her heyday. I've never met a dude who considered her that hot, or remembered the height of her fame all that fondly on a personal level.
I think the reason for this was her sort of risque sexuality, her overt sexual expression... and perhaps it was a stylistic issue as well. In general, I do not believe men enjoy it when a woman comes on super strong and displays her sexuality so publicly. Especially not the men of the 'olden days' as it were.
But now as a 62 year old woman, Madonna still pulls that risque sexual shit, and it's not hot anymore... I think it's widely agreed upon that it crossed the realm into "creepy" post circa 2010.
In the early 2000s, during the era of her last good album, "Music"...
In my opinion, Madonna was still inarguably hot. See the videos I will post later in the thread as examples.
Upon the release of "Music", Madonna was 42 years old. Some people hold up decently to that age, and she looked fine, had a nice body, and was sexy.
But things start going downhill rapidly at that age and fast forward to 2010, as a 52 year old woman, it started to get into "creepy" territory when she would display her sexuality in the same manner she had in her younger years.
Here's a fact...
I believe older chicks can definitely be sexy. But that is MY opinion, and it is the opinion of a female, no less. Therefore, there is no way for me to speak on the male perspective, and I would say that a woman is far more likely to consider a female over 50 "sexy" than a man is... why? Because of admiration. In many cases, females look up to other females, and if there is an example of a fun, spicy, sexy older female, they will look to that as a beacon of hope for their own future. "I can still be fun over 50?! Yay!"
One example that comes to mind of a woman over 50 who I consider incredibly sexy is Michelle Gomez, here is her thread: https://www.sectual.com/thread-3435.html
Gomez has always had an innate sexiness to her that age has not diminished in my opinion... her smouldering, captivating gaze is still wholly intact. But she is a respectable woman, never TRYING to be sexual, just being so naturally. She simply can't help it... it's within her very essence.
But Madonna is no Michelle Gomez.
For example, currently Madonna is dating a man 36 years her junior. His name is Ahlamalik Williams, and here they are pictured together: https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2...113377.png
Do I believe that he is genuinely sexually attracted to Madonna? Absolutely not. Do I believe any of her other MUCH younger loverboys were truly attracted to her? Not really... I mean, perhaps the excitement and novelty of dating THE Madonna was a genuine draw for them in the beginning, but I'm sure that wore off rather quickly.
I have no doubt that she pays these men to have a presence in her life... much the same as a younger woman gets involved with an older man for security and resources. The difference? Younger women are genuinely sexually attracted to older men, in many cases. Apart from some type of unhealthy obsession, or "mommy issues" in some form, I do not believe a younger man can truly be attracted to an older woman. If anyone has experience proving otherwise, feel free to share.
On top of her creepy lack of self awareness and the inability to "dial back" her sexuality to a respectable/acceptable level, Madonna is also outspoken about politics and other social issues in an incredibly unattractive way. All things considered, there really just isn't much to like about her.
To summarize...
I believe it is entirely possible for an older woman to exhibit her sexuality in a way that is not creepy. If it isn't forced, if it comes from a natural place, then I see no issue with it, and I think the world needs ladies like that. I personally find them very enjoyable, and to tell you the truth... if I live to any considerable age, I expect to be one of those ladies.
But Madonna? No. She's JUST creepy at this point...
And don't even get me started on her bizarre obsession with adopting little black children and making them fan her like little slaves on social media...
One need only scroll through her Instagram to see various examples of inappropriate display of these children...
https://www.instagram.com/madonna
But here's a direct link to what I'm referencing:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CEBfhluhzTO
https://twitter.com/Madonna/status/1295663384441040896
That horridly unsettling behavior is leagues worse than her overt sexuality at age 60+... I don't think anyone could argue otherwise.
Those little children are not your toys or your trophies, Madonna... they are individuals with destinies and unique purpose in this world. Just stop being disgusting.
