07-13-2021, 08:01 AM
One thing that fucks me up is seeing the young chicks get older...
Lmao, now listen. I am NOT shit talking. I am NOT.
I'm also a chick who was once young but did the getting older incrementally thingy as well, it's not an insult, it's an observation...
And what always happens is the loss of the youthful, healthy, skinny frame.
Life gets weird and stupid, they can't find good men or they're with a stupid man, they're struggling on their own making bad decisions...
Whatever the case may be...
Inevitably the pudginess happens.
Inevitably.
Now, of course it can be a passing phase...
That's not to say they'll STAY pudgy, it happens to us ALL, ESPECIALLY after 30, etc.
I get it, I get it.
But I personally get to this point where if I see fat starting to collect anywhere that makes me feel uncomfortable in my clothing or just AT ALL?? I will only exist in that state for a short amount of time before I decide it's time to either make exercise a HABIT in my life, or dabble in anorexia again. I am just being real.
This time I've hit that cycle, and I've made a choice to take months making daily exercise a habit... making it a habit over a long period of time is the way to success. Having a toned, fit body is better than anorexia, but doesn't sound as easy... mentally, it's a huge deal to get to the place (as a formerly inactive person) where you are truly ready to move your ass and sweat it all out every single day.
When I started exercising for hours a day every day, I realized the body responds to that kind of care in a very eager way. Anyone can do it, but I am sure it's harder for some people than others depending on their genetic situation or whatever, I am not an expert. I just know that there comes a time (especially as a woman) when you gotta make a fucking choice... and I will also say that you do it for yourself, not anyone else or even the idea of anyone else. When you do it for yourself is when it really works.
Lmao, now listen. I am NOT shit talking. I am NOT.
I'm also a chick who was once young but did the getting older incrementally thingy as well, it's not an insult, it's an observation...
And what always happens is the loss of the youthful, healthy, skinny frame.
Life gets weird and stupid, they can't find good men or they're with a stupid man, they're struggling on their own making bad decisions...
Whatever the case may be...
Inevitably the pudginess happens.
Inevitably.
Now, of course it can be a passing phase...
That's not to say they'll STAY pudgy, it happens to us ALL, ESPECIALLY after 30, etc.
I get it, I get it.
But I personally get to this point where if I see fat starting to collect anywhere that makes me feel uncomfortable in my clothing or just AT ALL?? I will only exist in that state for a short amount of time before I decide it's time to either make exercise a HABIT in my life, or dabble in anorexia again. I am just being real.
This time I've hit that cycle, and I've made a choice to take months making daily exercise a habit... making it a habit over a long period of time is the way to success. Having a toned, fit body is better than anorexia, but doesn't sound as easy... mentally, it's a huge deal to get to the place (as a formerly inactive person) where you are truly ready to move your ass and sweat it all out every single day.
When I started exercising for hours a day every day, I realized the body responds to that kind of care in a very eager way. Anyone can do it, but I am sure it's harder for some people than others depending on their genetic situation or whatever, I am not an expert. I just know that there comes a time (especially as a woman) when you gotta make a fucking choice... and I will also say that you do it for yourself, not anyone else or even the idea of anyone else. When you do it for yourself is when it really works.
