02-03-2022, 06:21 PM
Also, another consideration could be that her boyfriend is like weird and controlling or something. If you notice, ever since they've been together, her rate of content production has plummeted. Maybe she feels like she can't make content because of him.
The fact that she wanted to go stay somewhere alone for a bit sort of shows that the solution to whatever is most prominently wrong in her life is to BE ALONE.
Though she's always had a lot of friends, I think Stephi's happy place is one of solitude. She's had a lot of time out there alone on the road, traveling, etc. She clearly loves that time alone with herself.
I dunno, I am just not a fan of romantic relationships. They're extremely limiting in the first place, suffocating as a norm. Stifling. They neuter you while also expecting that you'll still want to have sex at the same time. In my opinion, relationships are inherently a big inconvenience, and little more.
I don't think Stephi's ever seemed all that happy in life since she's been with her BF anyway... at first things were maybe fine, but it really has seemed like she's gradually become less happy over time. That's not to say her BF sucks (or maybe he does)... but really, we as individuals come first. If we're not doing okay within ourselves, no bandage is gonna fix that. It has to be fixed at the root... at the self. If anyone stands in the way of that or expects for them to be put first... pft. Fuck that.
So there's no way to know what the hell is really going on in her life. But whatever it is, she can get out of it. I dunno whose name is on their house or what's up with that... but there's nothing that is REALLY gonna tie her to the situation if she doesn't wanna be in it. If he sucks, she needs to be honest about it. If he doesn't suck, but she's just not happy in the situation, she needs to be honest about it. Stephi comes first.
A couple days at an Air BnB isn't near enough. What was keeping her from making it a week instead? Monetary restrictions, or relationship restrictions?
Cuz if it's money... the answer to that is apparent. Make more videos, make more art, sell things. If it's relationship restrictions... let that relationship go, and don't be fooled into thinking there's anything stopping you from it either.
The fact that she wanted to go stay somewhere alone for a bit sort of shows that the solution to whatever is most prominently wrong in her life is to BE ALONE.
Though she's always had a lot of friends, I think Stephi's happy place is one of solitude. She's had a lot of time out there alone on the road, traveling, etc. She clearly loves that time alone with herself.
I dunno, I am just not a fan of romantic relationships. They're extremely limiting in the first place, suffocating as a norm. Stifling. They neuter you while also expecting that you'll still want to have sex at the same time. In my opinion, relationships are inherently a big inconvenience, and little more.
I don't think Stephi's ever seemed all that happy in life since she's been with her BF anyway... at first things were maybe fine, but it really has seemed like she's gradually become less happy over time. That's not to say her BF sucks (or maybe he does)... but really, we as individuals come first. If we're not doing okay within ourselves, no bandage is gonna fix that. It has to be fixed at the root... at the self. If anyone stands in the way of that or expects for them to be put first... pft. Fuck that.
So there's no way to know what the hell is really going on in her life. But whatever it is, she can get out of it. I dunno whose name is on their house or what's up with that... but there's nothing that is REALLY gonna tie her to the situation if she doesn't wanna be in it. If he sucks, she needs to be honest about it. If he doesn't suck, but she's just not happy in the situation, she needs to be honest about it. Stephi comes first.
A couple days at an Air BnB isn't near enough. What was keeping her from making it a week instead? Monetary restrictions, or relationship restrictions?
Cuz if it's money... the answer to that is apparent. Make more videos, make more art, sell things. If it's relationship restrictions... let that relationship go, and don't be fooled into thinking there's anything stopping you from it either.
