03-26-2022, 02:49 PM
13:07 exactly... reactive abuse is not abuse. Here's a YouTube video on that topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-9g-JzM0No
Essentially, the narcissist will push you and push you, in any number of approaches/methods, and then when you finally can't take it anymore, when they've driven you to the brink of insanity and you lose your composure...
They'll act like you're being crazy and abusive to them, when really, they antagonized that reaction out of you, sometimes for days on end, until you finally broke. It's kind of like interrogation/torture tactics. But way more covert.
Essentially, the narcissist will push you and push you, in any number of approaches/methods, and then when you finally can't take it anymore, when they've driven you to the brink of insanity and you lose your composure...
They'll act like you're being crazy and abusive to them, when really, they antagonized that reaction out of you, sometimes for days on end, until you finally broke. It's kind of like interrogation/torture tactics. But way more covert.
