08-07-2022, 03:31 PM
She's so lucky she bought the house by herself and not with some dude. Men are always trying to fuck you out of security and comfort at every point and turn. Females should be raised on the goal of property/home ownership before all else. You reach the goal of owning your own home as soon as possible in life, then you can go waste your time in a relationship if you so choose. Just don't marry him... don't wanna give him any opportunity to fuck you out of what belongs to you.
2:46 some realtors are scumbags, some are truly great. You always luck up hard when you find one who is actually GOOD. I've met many realtors, but I've only met 2 or 3 who weren't just out to brazenly fuck you.
4:07 definitely not the time to be buying or selling... that's for sure. But everybody's gotta take their own journey into the house thingy at some point or another, and as a wise man once said, "An awful lot of life can be missed just waiting for the right time."
4:15 pretty amazing how artists are able to see the vision of what they're trying to paint, lmao. I just cannot understand how it works. Stephi is so wonderfully talented. I think she could always make a great living doing commissioned pieces.
4:50 the thing is, once you get into a house, life really starts to slide away. Lol, I'm so for real. Like, time just GOESSSS. I was always told this by my elders. If you get in a relationship, time sliiiidddesss. If you live in one place for years, time sllliiiidddesss. I think it's good to change it up at least once every 5 years because of that simple fact. By moving around and having those different experiences, changes of scenery, etc., you can bend/warp/elongate time.
It's a strange dichotomy. The goal is home/property ownership... however, staying there forever is ill-advised. The ultimate situation would be to own the home, but have the van and go traveling around frequently. You have that homebase, but you also keep moving. In that case, it's good to have a close friend or trusted family member who can occupy the dwelling while you're not there. Houses need to be lived in and cared for on the daily.
5:15 yeah, the closing process is painstaking as shit. The entire process of acquisition is painstaking actually, finding the place, making an offer, all that stuff... really stressful and loads you up with all kinds of emotional apprehension.
5:50 shit, that's beautiful... I think I'm gonna cry.
6:30 there's nothing better than being alone. It's such a blessing... especially for an artist.
6:40 I spy the Wild Unknown Animal Spirit Oracle! Such a perfect deck for Stephi.
7:20 lmfaooo, OMG, SAAAMMMEEEEE!!!!! I'm so glad to hear I'm not the only one who has a book fetish but doesn't even read them.
7:42 that's a bitchin' kitchen... nice island countertop, great cabinets.
8:30 nice floor... love me some wood.
Revel in your freedom, Stephi, and don't ever give it up for anyone. No one is worth it. Love your dog, love your solitude, and just create.
