03-12-2023, 12:32 AM
(03-12-2023, 12:27 AM)Chatwoman Wrote: The connection between these offspring and their wannabe mother (in this case, Paris) just won't be there because they weren't physically carried by her.
The relationship between the father and the offspring may be fine though, since it's business as usual for the father in this situation. Using a surrogate is no different than using your wife... the man doesn't carry the baby, there will be no negative consequences of surrogacy for the male/dad.
This is why men abandon their kids/families all the time... by nature, they have no skin in the game at all and it's very easy for them.
Surrogacy puts the wannabe mother in the very same position as a father... the bond just won't be there.
The kid is gonna sense that, only it's gonna be a two-way street because the kid won't have any sense of belonging with the wannabe mother either.
They'll feel that bond with their REAL mother, the surrogate, and tragically, they'll never get to be with their real mother because they were bought/paid for and their mom was just a tool to these people.