05-07-2017, 12:42 PM
(05-07-2017, 12:06 PM)Trix Wrote: I don't think she's in physical danger... if you look at her, she's always in good physical shape. She always has her hair done and she looks healthy, nah she looks totally fine. This is mental stuff that I think is a problem.
For example, cult leader dudes will always try and isolate you from your family/friends, they try to get you to be super dependent on them. Well, back several years ago, Krista used to do her 'channeling' by herself... now it's always him asking her questions, instead of her just talking.
I dunno, it's just kinda weird and sad. Krista seems like a sweet and caring person. I just think she's been taken advantage of and brainwashed by this cult leader wannabe dude, he even said he wants to "have a retreat". It all makes sense now. He basically wants to start a cult and be a cult leader.
What I find kind of unsettling is him calling these polyamorous hookups "sacred". He's basically saying this isn't just regular sex because the animal in me wants to fuck your body, it's sacred and divinely inspired! LOL... it just seems like a real mindfuck to me.
Look at his eyes too... especially when he's annoyed. I bet he can be really mean and insulting. In that livestream video I originally made this thread about, Krista mentioned her shorter new hairstyle and said that Archie (that's my name for him now) said it made her look "older". She seemed sorta hurt by it. To me, this chick looks quite young. She's very young and pretty looking to me.
They've been together at least 5 years. Chicks are still pretty malleable in their early 20s. It could be that he got ahold of her at just the right time and started working his brainwashing on her. My guess is she really loves him and wants to make him happy. It's sad man, I think he's really fucked her mind up. She was probably a little crazy before meeting him, that's probably why they gravitated toward each other... she was probably part of some kinda fruit loop group and either met him IRL or online.
She's also got some of the other classic victim relationship traits like fear of driving. She's got this super immature childlike quality, which there's nothing wrong with being youthful, it's only when you add that naive dynamic into relationships that it becomes a problem. Something that can be manipulated.
So here is the first ever video on her channel, 5 years old, and she looks, acts and speaks a lot more maturely in it compared to these days if you want my opinion:
And here is 2 years ago, a video she made about the open relationship thing where she says it's "new to her" AKA not her fucking idea at all:
And here's the newest open relationship update from late 2016:
So there she is basically disillusioned with polyamory and saying she's had a few weird run-ins with people. What bothers me about this is that Archie is basically an old pro at his stupid little open relationship game. Krista is new to it, as she said, and has been fed a lie of what it's even about. So she's going around out there all new and naive to it all, while Archie doesn't give a shit, he knows how it works. This isn't something they "explored together", and that is just unbalanced.
Sounds to me like Archie sprang this polyamory bullshit onto Krista 3 or 4 years into their relationship, after he was sure she was comfortable enough and settled in enough to feel secure and not want to jeopardize that security by dumping him for his outrageous suggestion.
If you have a cute, pretty, hot chick 15 years younger than you who is willing to put up with your blathering psycho shit in the first place, you're lucky. But then being greedy and selfish enough to push for an open relationship, randomly and out of nowhere? Well then you're just a piece of shit.
It's one thing if people enter into a relationship making it clear that they might want to be polyamorous someday... but if it's never mentioned and you just spring it on somebody? That's fucked up. Because Archie is (at least) 15 years older than her, HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS INTO. He knew. He ain't got the excuse of being a young guy. He was in all likelihood OVER FORTY when they got together. LOL! That fucking guy knew what he wanted and I bet he had it planned the whole time. To wait and be patient, give it time for her to feel comfortable and dependent on him... then spring the open relationship bullshit on her.
If that is true, she should dump him and just work extra hard promoting her books and channeling and shit, she'll make it on her own. If he really has been brainwashing her that hardcore, she needs to get away sooner than later so she doesn't lose the rest of her youth to him.
Sorry to keep gushing over you, Trix, but you are SO spot on about everything. You're are so insightful and wise. You should be the new Dear Abbie.... with a lime twist. A young and hot Dear Abbie type person, though I know you don't give advice so much as you observe and comment on things - but you are really good at analyzing things and pointing out the bullshit.
