05-24-2017, 10:16 PM
(05-24-2017, 10:09 PM)Trix Wrote:(05-24-2017, 10:02 PM)SIX Wrote: Might be true to a certain extent but far short of a whole & complete picture, it's a very multifasceted topic
I would argue that the assumed 'multi-faceted' or 'complicated' nature of relationships is really just over-complication and trying to make a deeper meaning out of something that is really pretty simple.
It's all co-dependency. Wrapping up issues that are individually based, in a relationship that provides attention diversion and deflection as a default. Relationships serve to distract people from coming into inward wholeness...
And usually the distraction just consists of a bunch of drama and unfair/impossible expectations... again mirroring the true issue, which is that understanding and quality which we would like to see in ourselves.
I definitely recognize that what you say has validity in many cases, to some extent or another but I definitely don't think it is one size fits all, bonds come in many shapes & sizes and it's been said friendship is the highest octave of Love
