12-22-2017, 03:19 PM
(12-22-2017, 03:01 PM)Stepper Wrote: I'm sorry but I don't quite understand what do you mean by "he just rejected them". He said that the problem was actually girls that they would reject him.
Well that's the dichotomy of Elliot Rodger... calling himself "magnificent" when he actually had terribly low self-esteem. Saying girls "rejected" him when actually, he totally closed off and acted like a douche when they approached him. He probably came off as a COMPLETE asshole to girls who approached him. Because think about it... if you're a good looking person by basically everyone's estimation, but you have shitty self-esteem, you don't have an accurate view of yourself. So when someone approaches you because they think you're attractive, but you have extreme self-confidence issues... you're going to close up and be totally shy, which to the other person is going to come off as you seeming like a total asshole. After all, what could be the problem? You're very good looking, they assume you know that... so when you react in a shy, elusive way, they think you're an ASSHOLE. They can't comprehend why you would react in a shy way because they don't ASSUME you have a totally warped self-view and low self-esteem. It's not rocket science. It's so obvious that it's amazing it's a mystery to people at all. Yet it is. And thus, a huge cycle of perpetual misunderstanding is born.
This is why it's so terrible when people have mental issues... really tragic. People go around with a warped view of themselves, and they respond to other people from that misunderstood place.
As for the chicks on YouTube who purport to be all obsessed with Elliot, they're not "in love" with him, they're in love with an image and an assumption of what they THINK he is. Just like any other 'famous' person who has obsessed fans. It's all imaginationland... don't ever think for a minute that if put together in the same room, ANY of these people would actually end up in a loving relationship together, ROFLMAO. That's not reality.
