06-16-2018, 10:18 PM
(06-16-2018, 10:12 PM)Trix Wrote: Zane and his wife are a great example of how a total lack of emotional intelligence causes people to suffer in relationships and bring others down with them.
Zane's wife didn't have the emotional intelligence to actually understand where Zane's problems come from and try to provide him counsel.
Of course it's true that Zane and his wife have some kind of warped karma together which transcends all that anyways... so really it's an irrelevant point.
But if one didn't believe in karma, the only explanation would be an emotionally traumatized (due to neglect etc.) man gets with an emotionally retarded woman who provides him absolutely zero useful counsel whatsoever.
And it's not exceptional... most people aren't smart enough to look behind peoples' actions and behaviors to hone in on the root cause of their issues. It's not like Zane's wife was remarkable in her total inability... really, it's the norm.
But that norm must be changed.
Fuck you are Brilliant! The only way we are going to even attempt to change this, is to educate people.
But what if people most people don't want to be educated? Leadership by example could work better than trying to hammer it into their heads.
