Loyalty isn't really loyalty if it's fear induced, it's just enslavement...

[Mister Obvious]

That's why I think you really have to give people a lot of room in romantic relationships...

Give room for freedom and choice. It's better for someone to leave you than to only stick around because they don't want to hurt you BY leaving. When people feel free to do whatever, they don't have to waste a lot of your time and theirs mulling over moving on.

Jealousy is bad, and especially when you're young, it's hard not to have those feelings. Eventually though, you gotta grow out of it. The next step is learning to not care that much whether you're going to get dumped for somebody else or even on the small end of the spectrum, if your partner thinks somebody else is hot as fuck.

You have to be a realist about relationships. Of course your partner is gonna think other people are hot as fuck, especially after you've been together for a while. Who fricken cares?? They'll either stay with you or they won't, or you'll get to make them feel like total shit and dump them for cheating on you if you find out.

You gotta be cool about it... just let it all happen. Don't be so possessive over people. People should be free... if their loyalty isn't heartfelt, why would you ever want it? And I also think that if things change and someone says they want out, there shouldn't be any hurt feelings because at least they were honest and didn't drag things on.

Immediate honesty is the best policy. Openness. Freedom.

[Mister Obvious]

This is a little ridiculous but I'll mention it anyway. Because I think it's hilarious.

I think it'd be cool to be in a committed relationship where you're loyal to eachother but if you see somebody randomly who you think is super hot, like somebody jogging down the street or something...

I feel like it would be really funny to be able to openly say "Damn I'd like to fuck the hell out of her/him!"



And you both just laugh about it, right?

Because at the end of the day, it's just a passing thought. It's not like you're really gonna bang. It's a stranger. And most people aren't even attractive once you get to know them...

[Mister Obvious]

People just shouldn't be so selfish in relationships... that's all ego. It's not even actually about the other person at the end of the day.

And there shouldn't be anything you can't say to your significant other, your thoughts should be able to be shared freely and openly. Why else be in a damn personal/romantic relationship otherwise?

[Nb]

Damn trix..i dont know what kind of guy you think i am but i just wanted to have sex. Thats it.. Thats all.. Haa but in a serious note..i have the same emotional feelings as a broken robot. In fact, ive been accused of having no feelings and being a huge asshole. I wasnt always like this. About 20 years ago this chick took my emotions and threw them on the ground. I left them there. If only she had gotten me the correct flavor ice cream i had asked for none of this would have happened. I wanted rocky road and the bitch got me fucking pistachio garbage ice cream. I was devastated. It had to end now. So since then i learned that i was number one and all else can fuck off. Yes i can be an asshole, but, if you just get me the right flavor ice cream then im a cool guy.

[Mister Obvious]

Those are some awesome words... I'd never heard of that song before.

I blame popular media so much for the brainwashing they put on people, especially children.

Disney is absolutely the most guilty. Programming children to expect that they'll find some special kind of romantic love when they grow up...

That "happily ever after" even exists.

They should be ashamed of themselves for teaching children this mindset of dependence and this sense of not being whole by oneself.