The kind of need and dependence that children feel toward their mothers...

[Mister Obvious]

Is really powerful, probably the most powerful thing for the first several years of a life...

It's too scary and sad and painful.

This is another reason I'm just not sure about reproducing.

[Mister Obvious]

Seriously...

Babies and little children become totally freaked out and frantic if they can't SEE or HEAR their mothers.

Especially in public. Anybody who remembers losing sight of their mom at a store or something... that sheer and total panic. I mean it's gut wrenching.

Why the fuck put somebody through that?

Of course as kids get older, these feeling dissipate.

But still...

Man it's messed up. I just dunno.

[Mister Obvious]

This sums up exactly what I am talking about...

[Tribulation]

:) You should feel that Trixie. The unconditional love of your own baby. :)xo

[Mister Obvious]

I knowwwwwwww.

But MAN.

It's so serious.

And it's just sad.

It really is sad.

I don't think it's right or fair...

I think life is a cruel trap and game.

[Tribulation]

It doesn't have to be a trap or game Trixie. Just follow your heart and let all else go. Traps and games are the result of letting the world and its worldly vices misdirect us away from our hearts desires. :)x

[elaine]

Usually your mother is your first mirror, what you're forced to use to form the foundation of your identity, I only find that sad if later in life you're no longer capable of looking into that mirror, it's the essential need and dependence to exist as an identity and you've to stay aware of that if you want to keep a stable identity to guide you through this perception of "reality", or if you want to go beyond your identity which is perhaps what motherhood should be considered as, feelings don't dissipate but identity does

[Guest]

"This sums up exactly what I am talking about..."

i love the little noises the baby makes , that is pure love