watching couples

[user49]

Cream of caulk...
I guess nursing homes are full of people yet to mature... nursing home walls see more sex than do the walls of brothels

[Cream of Caulk]

Cream of caulk...
I guess nursing homes are full of people yet to mature... nursing home walls see more sex than do the walls of brothels

Majority people never mature mentally. 

That's why women like Trix are a rare find. I bet she doesn't fuck around and play games either like how most women past menapause do.

It's very difficult for people to achieve self awareness.

[Cream of Caulk]

I just want to add that orgasms are only temporary ways to make the woman in your life feel good SIX. It feels good and then it's gone, you want a woman to have a lasting feeling of good, cum fast and tell her it's because her pussy feels like the first time you fucked her. Talk about her and how good she feels during those 20 seconds of pounding. She's going to be on cloud 9 for a very long time because she's the hottest woman you have ever been with, or maybe the only woman you have been with but still she's going to want to know that she's all you need to be turned on. That's going to make her feel good and confident all the time, not just for 3 seconds.

[user49]

What you say is interesting but the reality is that I dont want a woman who feels special because she feels like she is the best I've ever had in bed, on the occasions that I cum fast it doesn't even have anything to do with that.

I would however want a woman who felt special because she saw & appreciated the subtle but grande effort I put in to making her know that she is special, the kind that merely a stare in to the eyes confirm. To feel special & confident not because she is the hottest I could ever be with but because she is herself the most suitable overall partner for the partnership, and in alignment and in harmony with the crew of said ship & its intended destination, even through the tough & stormy waters.

[Mister Obvious]

That was an honest rap, Six.

[Mister Obvious]

I wrote a thread about this...

http://www.sectual.com/thread-1548.html

Whether it's relationships with other people, or relationships with pets...

It's all codependency. 

Loneliness is a personal problem...

If you're lonely, it's not because you're alone, it's because you can't stand being with yourself.

And if you can't stand being with yourself, there's probably a reason for that. Get to the bottom of what it is... fix it.

Did somebody abuse you and make you feel unworthy? Is that why you can't handle being alone with yourself? Uncover the trauma and heal from it.

You're gonna have a hard and shitty time in life if you can't be alone with yourself. And no one really wants to put up with somebody who can't even handle being alone.

Be careful using animals (pets) as emotional dumpsters too. You end up making them just as fearful and neurotic as you are... do you think that's fair? 

People love to share their out of control fears and anxieties with other people and see if they can make them feel the same way, because this reaffirms and justifies the way they feel... therefore eliminates the need to change.

Good luck avoiding these kind of people...

Being alone, being ABLE to be alone, is great, but eventually you do have to mingle with other people. And chances are all you're really going to run into is a bunch of weird fucked up neurotic mentally disturbed needy people. So you have to RECOGNIZE these qualities surrounding these people. If you consciously recognize it, it can't affect you. All it can do is be a reminder and an annoyance... something that exemplifies "how not to live" and "what not to do".

It is 100% necessary to be ABLE to be alone with yourself, happily, comfortably and peacefully. If you aren't able to achieve this... you will never be at peace within yourself, and you'll never be able to 'shake that feeling'. The feeling that causes anxiety and fear and dread. So if there's work you need to do in order to be successfully alone with yourself, get started now and stop wasting time.

[Mister Obvious]

Well they would be the exception to the rule...

And I think that if I were promised to meet this magical couple, I would be waiting a very long time.

[Mister Obvious]

You're definitely very reasonable... I admire that!

[elaine]

I gave my sister and her boyfriend relationship therapy this weekend, I think that's why they invited me over to stay there, might've been to work in the backyard too but well I gave them relationship therapy and I've never even been in a relationship but it seemed to be working, they were communicating again.
I don't know much but who does, loneliness to me is believing you can't mean anything for other people and sometimes through that also for yourself, I only get lonely when I've some superficial contact with people, just realizing i've no effect at all on them, i'm fine when i'm alone cause I just like the person I am when i'm alone

[elaine]

The only one that has things to share that can't be shared with anyone else

[elaine]

Makes me think about all these holidays gifts we force on each other, just creating the illusion that we can share something but all we ever manage to share is material objects and it's just sad while we've to pretend it makes us happy, happy to share a brand new kitchen appliance, maybe a nice blender to make smoothies with, so happy we can share a nice blender to make smoothies with our loved ones, so happy once we're alone again we stare in front of us trying to see what makes us so damn happy and all we see is material junk, so happy we start to cry

[Mister Obvious]

I love giving people material junk, it's fun!!!