Serious question about the morality of perving out on super old dudes...

[Mister Obvious]

I need you guys to weigh in on this.

Say I was legitimately "into" a super old dude, like age 75+...

Is it morally wrong and disrespectful to perv out on him like I'd perv out on any other dude??

Like...

Should super old dudes be viewed and treated like they're retarded or disabled just because they're hella mega old??

[Mister Obvious]

The way I see it is...

If they're of sound mind, then it's fine.

But if they were senile or something, it'd be wrong just the same way as it'd be wrong to perv out on a mentally disabled dude.

Not sure who the fuck would be into a legit mentally retarded dude/person in the first place, but I can't think of any other fitting analogies.

I just don't wanna be disrespectful, and even worse, I don't wanna be oblivious to being disrespectful.

So clue me in, is it wrong??? Should I not be pervy about super old dudes??

[Mister Obvious]

Imagine you were a super old dude... would you feel disrespected if a younger chick was perving out on you like some kind of sex fiend???

I know none of the dudes here are mega old but this is the only group of people I feel comfortable asking this question.

And you're literally ALL male, like there are legitimately no other females on this site, especially now that it's closed to the public.

So do me a solid and BE HONEST.

Now listen, I understand that my approach to perving out on dudes MAY be disrespectful regardless of whether they're close to my own age or not.

My question isn't about whether my perviness in general is disrespectful, cringe, embarrassing, don't care. Ever. At all.

This question is SPECIFICALLY about the morality of perving out on old dudes.

[Mister Obvious]

And what I mean about "perving out on" them is the typical shit I've always done, you've all seen it.

Just SAYING pervy shit.

I don't even mean the act of laying down the slicky icky on a super old dude's shriveled privates.

I just mean simply EXPRESSING sexual interest in them.

[Mister Obvious]

I'm a New Age nun now anyways, I don't even have sex.

So this is just about simply expressing interest with colorful language and maybe like... suggestive body language and stuff.

[Mister Obvious]

Like...

What if I was in close physical proximity to a super old dude I was into...

What if I were to, you know, like...

Sit sort of close and maybe get a little bit touchy-feely, would that be bad and wrong??

Not fantasizing about doing this while I fall asleep every night, BTW, this is strictly hypothetical.

[Mister Obvious]

Totally hypothetical situation, 100% not applying to real life physical scenarios.

[Mister Obvious]

I feel like it's wrong. Gah, it's wrong isn't it??

Can anyone here explain WHY it's wrong though???

[Mister Obvious]

I don't wanna be wrong, that's no fun.

I wish it was okay to do this, cuz there are a couple mega old dudes I'm legit super into and this whole thing about it being wrong is really pissing in my Cheerios.

[GXT]

 laying down the slicky icky on a super old dude's shriveled privates.

Hmm... unless you actually do this, he may think you're just messing with him.

So it's wrong unless you follow through with slicky/shriveled stuff... but that could be immoral too. Definitely sounds like it should be.

[GXT]

And you did the stuff he could also have a heart attack and die. I think we can all agree killing is wrong.

[Dink Beaver]

she is obviously sizing some guy up for the payoff

the animal kingdom

[Mister Obvious]

Hmm... unless you actually do this, he may think you're just messing with him.

Highly likely that this would be the assumption. Good point.

But I'd do that to any man regardless how old. Lol.

Just because I'm sitting close and giggling and caressing your arm doesn't mean we're gonna bang.

Being a tease is a separate issue from the moral question of doing this to old dudes though.

So it's wrong unless you follow through with slicky/shriveled stuff... but that could be immoral too. Definitely sounds like it should be.

Lol...

[Mister Obvious]

she is obviously sizing some guy up for the payoff

No Kenny, it's love bro.

IT'S LOVE, MAN.

[Mister Obvious]

And Kenny you can't just post and not even give your two cents about the actual question.

[Mister Obvious]

What's wrong with being a tease though???

Like if you're in some kinda stuffy social event and you're a super old dude with a younger chick getting all weirdly close to you in a suggestive manner, making you think some shit is gonna go down, is that not entertaining in its own way in an otherwise boring situation??

Who cares whether anything actually ends up happening or not, it will have at least provided some kind of entertainment.

Any action is better than no action, I mean come on.

And what do I care if some old dude is salty later on because I didn't let him ride my slide? First of all, what if his dick don't even work anymore?? All you could do is pretend anyways.

No harm no foul as far as I can see it.

[Mister Obvious]

First of all, what if his dick don't even work anymore?? All you could do is pretend anyways.

I mean, maybe he'd say something along the lines of like...

"I can still eat pussy though!"

In that case, I'd be against the wall and my bluff would be called.

I'd have a hard decision to make.

[Mister Obvious]

I mean, maybe he'd say something along the lines of like...

Not that this scenario is part of my nightly fantasies or anything.

Absolutely not, no way.

I hate oral sex!

[Mister Obvious]

This may be the most cringey thread I have ever made.

I knew my best days were still ahead of me!

[GXT]

No harm no foul as far as I can see it.

Yeah I'd agree. Prolly just depends (no pun intended) on the dude.

Just have to size up the situation I'd imagine